Kids With Natal Oppositions Have Mother and father Who Disagree!

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Yesterday, I labored with a gal who has a son with a powerful Aries/Libra opposition in his 1st/seventh homes. My son has the same opposition. We mentioned this after which this morning somebody commented on this put up from 2009.   Made me assume I ought to pull this up…

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My son has an opposition in his chart mendacity prominently throughout his ascendant / descendant axis. There are benefits to seeing two sides to one thing however there isn’t a finish to ache and battle my son suffers due this facet in his chart.  “Strife” is a greater phrase, and I’m completely at fault.

I’m at fault alongside along with his father as we simply plain don’t agree. We don’t agree on something that I can consider. Not solely that, we’re diametrically opposed.

You possibly can wish to compromise in a state of affairs like this however the points are of the sort the place compromise will not be attainable, no less than on my finish. For instance, I believe a baby ought to do their very own homework. Vid’s father thinks it’s best to take your child’s work to be printed professionally… when he’s 5.

I’m not searching for individuals to decide on sides. I’m making an attempt to make some extent. The purpose, is that it’s very exhausting on Vid to have one guardian say one factor, the opposite say the precise reverse. Nevertheless… I can’t compromise these things.

Vid’s dad tends to search out fault with individuals and issues. Wherever he goes, he leaves with a listing of complaints and numerous criticisms. It’s as if the journey was okay however would have been higher if solely…

Somebody like me needs to shoot myself being round somebody like that – they simply can’t have a superb time.  So Vid… nicely he’s like all child on the planet.  His dad’s voice comes out his mouth.  So does his Mother’s!  And there’s the opposition proper there.

“This place sucks!” his father, says.

“This place is nice!” I say.

What’s the child to do?

If you’ve gotten a distinguished opposition in your chart (particularly involving the Solar, Moon or angles);are you able to bear in mind being uncovered to battle like this whenever you had been a child?