One of many causes I’m posting tales currently is to recall a time when folks interacted in ways in which have been enjoyable, gentle, deep, and stunning. I really feel that is actual life, versus the terrible manner folks deal with one another lately. I’m hoping the tales encourage you to speak in confidence to the nice that’s potential while you work together with different folks.
On the opposite aspect of the spectrum, I’m stunned I’ve by no means written about this earlier than: how one can work together with a shadowy particular person and end up degraded, if not totally rotting on the vine, in the event you spend time with them or spend money on their manner of being. There has received to be a phrase or phrase to explain this habits, however I can’t consider it to save lots of my life. Thanks, Neptoon.
On one aspect of the equation, you have got a bean-counter kind particular person. This made me consider “transactional relationships,” however after I tried to confirm this time period, I couldn’t. Thanks, degraded web!
Anyway, one of many companions in this kind of interplay is at all times watching, at all times weighing, at all times estimating your worth or lack thereof.
It makes me consider a child with marbles or possibly stars, which he/she will be able to award or take again, based mostly in your final motion or comment. You’re to be educated by their signaling approval or disapproval.
This type of particular person typically makes use of cash to reward or to not reward—type of like a dad or mum. “Put the phrases I need to hear in your mouth, and I’ll ship you a verify. Be your self? No verify for you!”
It’s bewildering for an individual with a powerful character. An individual is grooming you to be what they could like or settle for. How? Why?
Is the tip purpose that you just change into an extension of this different particular person? How? Why?
Three good beans in the present day, Elsa, however 4 dangerous. Whack!
It’s arduous for an individual like me as a result of I’ve Libra in my chart, and I genuinely care to please folks…however not like this!
How does an individual come to consider they’re the arbiter of one other particular person’s price?
Right here’s the acute model of this. I hope somebody in addition to me thinks that is humorous!
Is there a reputation for this? How do you take care of individuals who consider you, to demise? What’s the astrology?