I spoke with the mom of a younger son this morning. He’s about to have Pluto station conjunct his descendant.
In the meantime, she has Saturn transiting her fourth home. It’s additionally about boundaries and accountable parenting. She was complaining in regards to the boy’s father, with trigger.
If I feel it’s necessary sufficient, I’ll hit a consumer with one thing arduous, offered I do know they will take it. This gal is a Scorpio with an Aries Moon and a big stellium in Aries. She calls me for uncooked reality.
I requested her if she have been speaking badly in regards to the boy’s father. She wasn’t. “Good factor,” I mentioned. “He may lose his father beneath this transit.”
Now, I don’t normally say issues like this to folks, however the setup is there. You actually don’t wish to inform your son his dad is trash, the day earlier than he will get a name of this sort
I hope folks perceive this. I really like this girl. I’ve labored together with her for a variety of years. If I can see a deep gap and he or she’s speaking about her blurting mouth, I’m going to warn a good friend, see? Keep approach again from that “hazard gap” as a result of it’s deep!
Lengthy preamble, however it led me to interested by issues I remorse, doing or not doing. It was instantly apparent to me that my regrets are linked to occasions I didn’t act courageously. Ought to have stepped in, ought to have stepped up, ought to have simply completed it…
Please observe, that is private to me. I’m constructed to be brave. I’ve every part I want to face up. This implies if circumstances constellate and name for me to get entangled, and I don’t act, then I’ve failed, and I’ll remorse it. As a matter of reality, the dialog with the consumer is an effective instance. I may see the scenario, and I had the braveness to talk about it. That is what I’m paid for!
I’m additionally born to be sincere, and I’m sincere, so I’ve no points there.
I’m posting this so that you may take into consideration the character of your remorse. I used to jot down in regards to the 80/20 rule with astrology (search the weblog). Level being, it’s possible there’s one factor inflicting most of your issues, so far as remorse goes. Deal with it and also you’ll be sitting, fairly.
What are you able to say in regards to the nature of your remorse?