Hello Elsa,
I’ve a query I’m embarrassed about and ashamed to ask, however I assumed you would possibly be capable to present some readability. The very last thing I need to do is bad-mouth my man, however the robust attraction between us has a darkish facet: at occasions, I really feel repulsed by him. A few of the good issues – which relate to over-indulgence of meals, drink, intercourse, and work – could be a complete turn-off the subsequent second. I really like the depth, however I hate his ‘greed’. He can’t appear to cease, particularly when consuming and ingesting (however this pertains to work, well being and so on. as effectively)- which exhibits on his physique too – and I discover myself feeling important in the direction of him. I additionally discover him very controlling (he finds me very controlling too).
He’s very a lot an optimist and filled with power, and I like to exit and celebration collectively, have deep conversations, mind-blowing intercourse, having an eccentric way of life and feeling unrestrained by boundaries by any means. There’s a very skinny line right here between me loving his connoisseur and expansive being, and being repulsed by him ‘overdoing’ it. Am I being over-sensitive? If a wholesome relationship is to succeed, ought to I be drawn to him on a regular basis… and never on and off in extremes like I’m now?
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Pricey High,
What an attention-grabbing query. You make him sound like a glutton, shoving meals down his mouth. I consider I’d be disgusted as effectively! I’ve this image of Dom DeLuise with a turkey leg in every hand! And also you. A thin, nutritious diet acutely aware Virgo. Yeah, it’s in all probability not correct, however amusing simply the identical.
I checked each charts to search out out who the management freak is. And regardless of your concern over what goes into one other particular person’s mouth, you don’t appear particularly controlling to me. Both does he, so this led me to examine your composite – which revealed all.
For the novices, a composite chart is a merge between the charts of two people. It’s the chart of the connection. And this stuff are static! You get what you get. So High, what I’m telling you is that this depth between the 2 of you is hardwired. So is the management! And I notice this doesn’t clear up your drawback, however it might present steering.
It means you may cease what you might be doing (ought to I or shouldn’t I), and refocus as a substitute on the truth that that is what constellates between the two of you, interval.
So the actual query is, are you able to stand it? Are you able to transcend it? As a result of this boy is a Sagittarius rising. He’s speculated to be larger than life and telling him to not go overboard isn’t going to work. It might be like him telling you to enter a hotdog consuming contest. That’s not going to occur, is it?
Good luck.
