I’ve learn this submit right here (A Grueling Life With Which means… And Bliss On The Sly) and have a query. What in an individual’s chart reveals this capacity to deal with horrible issues after they occur, a capability to have the ability to ‘take it’?
I believe within the feedback you talked about that for you it’s Jupiter related eighth home however that’s in all probability not the one factor, proper?
I additionally keep in mind a number of posts the place you speak about individuals who can’t be damage even when anybody tries to harm them. So who’re these individuals? What are we on the lookout for of their chart? Thanks
Unambitious Capricorn
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Nice and difficult query, Capricorn. Should you search the weblog, “resilient“, I’ve written about this over time however I like your energy of notion, re: “that’s in all probability not the one factor, proper?”
Proper! I see Jupiter’s connection to my eighth home to be type of a “Wolverine” sort power. Tremendous exhausting to kill. However I’ve and I exploit different expertise.
Jupiter Uranus permits me to detach and see the bigger story. This is occurring know, however what about later? Let’s grasp in and discover out! See the optimism?
This power additionally permits me dissociate and look at a scene as if I’m not in it. The scene in my, California story, the place I’m struggling a humiliating beating is an instance. I used to be joking in my head, all through the beating. I actually thought the irony of all of it was, hysterical.
I did an identical factor throughout one other humiliating, probably life-threatening beating, in The Final Time W Beat Me, a narrative in my ebook. My thoughts was working (Mercury Mars) round all the chances (ninth home) and once more, I used to be telling myself jokes, as a result of, why not?
I might need realized this from my sister, primarily, my oldest, double Sagittarius sister. You might not hold this chick down for ten seconds. No matter what was achieved to her, she was up and pontificating, practically instantly. This implies, an individual may study to be extra resilient, similar to they are often taught in any other case.
cf perez felt Mars was the important thing. I introduced and fleshed out her idea right here:
Mars and The Resilient Youngster
I’ll add to this now: my Sagittarius sister has a Scorpio Mars. She’d be intending to flee out the window to go get together, as soon as our dad and mom had been asleep. Beatings had been irrelevant to her future good time!
All of us acted on this method. I went out the window, many instances, anticipating to be overwhelmed upon my return. It was not a deterrent in any respect. The identical with my center sister. We’re Jupitarians. We additionally all had Capricorn rising and guess what? You’re not working our life – we’re! Definance!
I really labored out the optimum time to come back residence by means of the window – 3 AM. If he heard us coming in, he’d not need to stand up and beat us – even when he did, he’d be groggy, see? This labored! Level being, this argues for Mars. I’ve the Mercury Mars conjunction. I’ve all the time thought tactically. Possibly I’m resilient as a result of I’m eager to prevail?
Relating to, “the individuals who can’t be damage”; I do know what you’re speaking about however I can’t discover the submit. If another person can, I’ll edit this and embrace a hyperlink. That submit was about individuals who wished their ex’s to battle after breaking apart with them. They wished to injure them or see them harmed for all of the ache they’d triggered.
I perceive the sentiment, however there are individuals on the market with a lot safety, you may’t take them out. There are numerous conditions that give this high quality. Of the highest of my head, issues like a Grand trine involving the solar, moon and Jupiter exalted in Most cancers. You may lower this individual’s leg off and so they’re nonetheless going to bounce. Bounce and transfer on, really.
There actually isn’t one side. I’ve seen charts the place eight of the 9 planets are concerned in ONE Grand Trine. The place’s the vulnerability, huh?
The images are each me. Within the high one, I’m sporting my husband’s SERE college sweatshirt which he gave me. It’s Particular Forces “torture college”. He’d concluded I deserved it as a lot as he did; been by means of as a lot.
The opposite one, I’m within the depths of hell at that time. Possibly 9 years previous? That’s one of many attire my mom made; too quick as a result of it’s the tip of the college yr, I’m positive. I’m holding considered one of my cats. My father used to twist their heads to torment me, however I do not forget that image being taken. I couldn’t wait to have an image with my cat. I believed I used to be going someplace in life.
This leaves me with a final thought. I began planning to go away residence once I was six years previous. I felt I had a future. I additionally suppose I used my father’s power in that each time he messed with me, he hardened my resolve.
It’s like enjoying playing cards. You may lose any variety of palms and nonetheless take the pot in the long run. To me, probably the most superb that is I’ve had no exhausting will in opposition to him, because the final time he beat me at 17 years previous. Someway I do know that’s a waste of power and power will not be one thing I prefer to waste!
Are you a resilient individual? What components make you this manner?
In case you are not resilient, what components create your state of affairs?