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Fantasy Love – Pining Over A Musician – Venus Sq. Neptune

Fantasy Love – Pining Over A Musician – Venus Sq. Neptune


NeptuneHello, Elsa

I’ve objectives, pursuits, mates, I’m younger, enticing… I’d say it’s a life I really feel may be very blessed.

With exception to at least one side. Guys. I can’t appear to get actually all in favour of any of them. It’s uncommon. I get chilly ft even earlier than it begins – even after I suppose I *might* have an curiosity… often as quickly because the curiosity is confirmed mutual, my very own evaporates… resulting in nothing.

After I DO develop an enduring liking on somebody it’s extra of an irregular fixation with somebody I don’t actually know. I get so fixated I develop a nasty shyness downside and run away from the particular person as a substitute of approaching the state of affairs calmly and rationally. It’s like operating away from an electrical shock.

I’ve a type of fixations now. It’s critical to the purpose the place I’m actually not even searching for completely different potentialities. I need this or I need nothing.

I don’t run into this particular person and we’re not but acquainted (although we swim in the identical circles) and this has been occurring for six months now. Me simply ready, considering one thing will occur right here as a result of it’s form of… meant to. My mates are utterly pissed off by my reluctance to do one thing energetic about it. However I simply say that that is ‘my manner’.

I promise I’m often extra affordable than this. What’s occurring right here?

Pissed off by Fixations

Pricey Pissed off,

You’re a lovely dreamer and I’ll inform you precisely what’s going on. The divine love you possibly can conceive of in your creativeness simply doesn’t exist on this aircraft. As a result of that is Earth, which falls manner wanting “heaven”.

I’ve comparable tendency in relationships, although nowhere close to your prowess, and I’ll inform you a narrative as an instance. Again after I was younger, nineteen, I ended right into a bar one night time and noticed, “Rueben”. Rueben was this Mexican man taking part in guitar and I don’t know. He simply made me slobber everywhere. I known as him, “Rue-ooh-ooh-ben!”. I began exhibiting up at this bar, couple nights every week to pine over him.

Now the person was accessible. Little chickies would dance in entrance of him, and he’d hook up fairly readily with one or the opposite. He noticed me within the bar, and he’d have absolutely been accessible to me however wealthy as my fantasy was, there was no manner in hell I used to be even going to speak to him. Why? As a result of I knew he’d spoil every little thing!

I had him dreamed into this beautiful being and the very last thing I wished was for him to return discuss to me – say one thing silly – after which what? No extra enjoyable for Elsa! And I knew it! I knew he might solely let me down and I’m suggesting you’re doing one thing comparable together with your present boy. You’re having fun with the fantasy on some degree and I don’t blame you, as a result of these things is delectable. “Will at the moment be the day? Will tonight be the night time? Was he taking a look at my shoulder? Did I simply really feel his breath?” So tasty subsequent to a mediocre roll within the hay, sure?

You might resolve fantasy is preferable to coping with a flesh and blood man, and in the event you suppose it could actually’t occur, simply examine the ladies who fall in love with lifers in jail. They dream them into deities and toss round of their beds at night time, about it. I assume their mates don’t prefer it, however what does that matter within the scheme of issues? That is your life. Your reward. Your curse.

So there you go. That is your nature. In my case, my ethereal qualities solely go to date. I need to have intercourse! This drove me to deal with these kinds of tendencies and discover a option to perform in an actual relationship. You are able to do similar… or not.


*Please word, this publish was written in 2011. The unique is on wayback machine, if you wish to learn the feedback.



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