“Pleasure getting in the way in which of affection? Who, moi? That is unimaginable. What on earth may get in the way in which of me loving somebody if I so deem it to be one thing that’s beneath me or just flawed for me? Ha, such nerve and satisfaction. I’m not a prideful one that lets one thing as trivial as all that get in the way in which of my love!”
Alright, let’s again it up a bit. What you’ve got simply learn above is mainly the form of response just a few of us can have at this time once we suppose that the rationale we’re not having the love lifetime of our desires is because of some form of situation that we create. Once we smash our possibilities over one thing like … sticking to our rules, it is onerous for us to confess that that is satisfaction. We could also be a hundred percent proper, however that does not make it any much less prideful.
On November 3, 2023, throughout the prideful transit of Venus reverse Neptune, we’re going to come nose to nose with our satisfaction. We’re not giving in at this time. We’re not up for compromising or ‘attempting one thing new.’ We now have closed the gates on what we are going to settle for or not settle for, and we aren’t budging. This type of satisfaction will get in the way in which of at this time’s love and the love that will probably be sooner or later.
Three zodiac indicators will expertise the harmful nature of satisfaction on November 3, 2023:
(Could 21 – June 20)
So, you’ve got determined what’s what, and that is the top of that. What this refers to is your stance in your relationship along with your particular person. In your thoughts, life was speculated to look a sure means, and since your companion has it of their thoughts that life is meant to look a distinct means, you are sad. You do not wish to settle for their means of doing issues; as an alternative of working with them, you are taking it upon your self to reject them flat out. Your ego and satisfaction are so large and so pumped up throughout Venus reverse Neptune that you’re prepared to allow them to go.
You’ve gotten your self into such a state of self-defense that you simply slam the doorways down on them; you do not even wish to hear them converse to you. You’ve determined to undertake the perspective of “you harm me!” Since you imagine they’ve harm you just by being themselves, your satisfaction will not allow you to even hear them out. You collect power in the concept ignoring them does not allow them to penetrate your world.
You could even go as far as to interrupt up with them after which ghost them. You are feeling harm, and you don’t need that harm to be soothed. You aren’t searching for an answer, solely an extension of the ache you might be preserving alive, though it has no that means anymore. Relatively than step off your excessive horse, you’ll hold this charade up for so long as it takes, even when it takes a lifetime.
(July 23 – August 22)
On November 3, 2023, you will begin a struggle with somebody beneath the guise of simply kidding round. You want doing this every now and then as a result of it will get your blood pumping. When it has one thing to do with folks you like, you work all will work itself out in the long term. Then there’s at this time, throughout the transit of Venus reverse Neptune, once you push it slightly too onerous.
What you have not anticipated is that the particular person whom you’ve got pushed too onerous will not be into being pushed. You already know you have been ‘simply kidding’, and so what do you do? You push even more durable as a result of you may’t admit that what you are doing is obnoxious and flawed. You’ve determined that your actions are cute and loving when, in actual fact, they’re abrasive and antagonistic.
The particular person whom you may have attacked can take it not and can let you know off. That is when issues abruptly begin to look offensive to you. You may offend as a lot as you need beneath the guise of ‘that is only a joke,’ however when this particular person comes again at you with their chilly protection, you go right into a rage. Your satisfaction has been set on hearth. You’ve been known as out, and you do not keep in mind giving anybody permission to do such a factor. Pleasure ends relationships. Maintain that one in thoughts.
(August 23 – September 22)
As an individual of nice generosity, you’re feeling that giving is the easiest way to obtain … and you would be appropriate. You like to make folks pleased, and you love making your companion really feel like 1,000,000 bucks. All of that is simply tremendous and dandy till your companion asks you to do one thing for them that may imply the world to them … if solely you’d agree. What they’re asking is not a lot, and it’s extremely straightforward so that you can comply with do it, however the actuality is that you do not WANT to do it.
On November 3, 2023, you are going to be influenced by the transit of Venus reverse Neptune, and it’ll undermine your want to do good by your companion. What they might carry up is that they’ve observed your want to ‘give love and be beneficiant’ revolves round your circumstances solely. They may level out that while you’re a really loving particular person, certainly, you might be additionally solely ready to offer what YOU wish to give. You aren’t open to giving way more.
This turns into a degree of satisfaction to you. You do not like listening to that you simply’re not an ideal champion of affection and lightweight. You don’t want to suppose that you have one way or the other been came upon … that means your companion sees that you simply aren’t as altruistic as you want everybody to suppose you might be. You give conditional love, and also you do it so that you will get one thing in return. When your companion confronts you on this, you’ll turn into offended and defensive.
Ruby Miranda interprets I Ching, Tarot, Runes, and Astrology. She offers non-public readings and has labored as an intuitive reader for over 20 years.