Hello, Elsa

Proper now, I’m having Pluto EXACTLY oppose my Venus in Leo. This opposition kinds a t-square with Pluto in Scorpio.

I’ve gone by way of plenty of transformations final 12 months. Weight reduction surgical procedure, shedding 140 lbs. This has renewed confidence in me and I’ve begun dressing extra in leather-based (tight) and this has introduced me loads of consideration from potential sexual companions (I’m a homosexual make on grindr).

I’ve additionally started exploring my sexual facet extra and disgrace that I’ve had relating to it. I’ve additionally been in my first relationship with a Scorpio man, which sadly ended after 2 months, once we determined we have been sexually incompatible resulting from my kinks (thank God he desires to remain associates).

I assume my query is, throughout a Pluto transit, issues will change or die no matter the way you attempt to cease it… however do we now have management over letting one thing die that’s unhealthy for us vs. letting one thing die that’s good for us?

Is Pluto a poison that WE can select what to poison, as a substitute of it being left to destiny, luck or probability?

Thanks
New Leather-based Man

Hello, New Leather-based Man. What an fascinating query, by no means thoughts your story is textbook to your transits. You’ve reworked and liberated your self. I needed to publish this!

To your query Pluto transits can convey lots that’s outdoors an individual’s management however it’s also possible to get with this system, which I’d advocate. I really feel that is what you’ve performed right here.

The potential for your remodeling your aesthetic and with it, your relationships, has all the time been there with natal Venus sq. Pluto. This transformation didn’t occur to you, you selected it. This alone illustrates we do have one thing to say about what happens.

It appears to me, you felt the urge and went with it. Now you might be invigorated. What would have occurred had you resisted? I suppose you’ll be feeling repulsive proper now.  So sure! There’s extra to it than destiny, luck and probability.

So far as what “dies”, it might or might not be out of your management.  For instance, this Scorpio man killed the sexual relationship. It’s a must to soak up that. However you killed your outdated, self.  It appears that is additionally variable.

I additionally wish to point out, your sharing your story is prone to encourage and empower somebody.  One other Venus Pluto factor.

What do others assume?