Narcissists have to fill an emotional void, so that they search others who’ve what they don’t possess: empathy. They’re on a mission to take what’s most valuable and distinctive inside others to satisfy their wishes and hidden agenda.
In a TikTok video, Jason Tapp, cPTSD survivor and educator with a Masters in Psychology lists the 5 traits narcissists normally search out of their companions, mentioning that narcissists have “black souls and chilly hearts.”
There are specific zodiac indicators that show these traits greater than others, making them extra more likely to entice narcissists.
The narcissist goals to steal the ability from somebody by way of gaslighting and emotional management which is why Taurus, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Pisces and even Aries might entice them. These indicators have compassion, and empathy and are extraordinarily dedicated to their companions particularly when they’re head over heels in love.
Taurus and Scorpio
As Jianny Adamo, LMHC and founding father of Fearless Love Teaching and Counseling, has defined, having a “excessive capability to like” is one trait that pulls narcissists. This can be a trait that Venusian indicators like Taurus and Libra have in frequent. Taurus placements will give components of themselves to their companions which is why when a Taurus is betrayed, the axis of Taurus/Scorpio prompts they usually unearth the darker aspect of their sister signal.
A Taurus can love deeply and when they’re damage, they are often harmful.
“You’re a highly effective individual,” Adamo posits within the article. Likewise, Scorpio and Taurus are two highly effective indicators that may make somebody wish to devour their energy and braveness. Scorpio is an indication that may entice narcissists however as a result of this can be a Mars-ruled signal, they’ve their arsenal ready. That is the signal of the warrior and strategist. They be taught by way of expertise, so that they not often repeat their errors. Nonetheless, a narcissist might nonetheless discover them as a result of Scorpios are compassionate, sort, and supportive. In any case, they’ll faucet into the Venusian qualities of their seventh home, particularly after they meet somebody they’re inquisitive about.
Scorpios are magnetic, charming, and enchanting. Nonetheless, if they need to battle a narcissist, they could have the higher hand as a result of Scorpios will not often tolerate being managed and manipulated.
Virgo and Pisces
As Tapp talked about in his video, “Narcissists are drawn to sort, compassionate, and empathetic individuals with a heat coronary heart.” Virgo and Pisces go out of their option to be the most effective companions and pals to their lovers. Virgos and Pisces are recognized to be compassionate, and type and can exit of their option to serve others. In any case, these are sister indicators and though they could appear totally different they’ve loads of similarities when they’re in love. They have an inclination to lose themselves in love and could have a troublesome time breaking free from its maintain.
Virgo and Pisces will sacrifice all of it for those they love which makes them excellent candidates for narcissists. These indicators have to discover ways to not fall for the flowery moments and as a substitute to be logical in regards to the interplay they’ve with their companions in addition to asking trusted family and friends for his or her opinions relating to their companions. These indicators must be conscious of the individuals they offer their power to they usually should be taught that when one thing doesn’t work of their favor, they need to depart and never look again.
Aries and Libra
“Weak individuals with unhealed trauma and low shallowness,” entice narcissists, in line with Tapp. “Typically broken individuals can’t see their inside magnificence however narcissists can see that and wish to feed off that and mirror that inside magnificence that they don’t have.”
If a Libra shouldn’t be advanced, they could not see their energy and capabilities. They might underestimate their potential and belief their associate’s damaging views of them if they don’t have good shallowness. Libras will also be codependent.
Libra should be taught to be extra impartial so as to not fall for the misleading techniques {that a} narcissistic associate could by way of their approach.
Aries is dominated by Mars, like Scorpio. This can be a highly effective zodiac signal, and as Adamo defined, assured individuals attract narcissists. The management facet and the necessity to dominate somebody will make Aries magnets. Aries additionally loves a problem, so they could get caught up within the toxicity of the connection with a narcissistic associate.
Libra is situated in Aries’ partnership home. As a substitute of channeling the co-dependent features of Libra, Aries ought to be taught to be prudent, and tactful, withhold their energy and management by not giving it to others or diming their gentle for anybody.
A.T. Nunez is an Afro-Latina Astrologer and thinker residing in NYC. She is keen about astrology and goals to proceed writing extra about stargazing sooner or later.
