Hello, Elsa

Proper now, I’m having Pluto EXACTLY oppose my Venus in Leo. This opposition varieties a t-square with Pluto in Scorpio.

I’ve gone via quite a few transformations final yr. Weight reduction surgical procedure, dropping 140 lbs. This has renewed confidence in me and I’ve begun dressing extra in leather-based (tight) and this has introduced me numerous consideration from potential sexual companions (I’m a homosexual make on grindr).

I’ve additionally started exploring my sexual facet extra and disgrace that I’ve had relating to it. I’ve additionally been in my first relationship with a Scorpio man, which sadly ended after 2 months, after we determined we have been sexually incompatible attributable to my kinks (thank God he needs to remain buddies).

I suppose my query is, throughout a Pluto transit, issues will change or die no matter the way you attempt to cease it… however do now we have management over letting one thing die that’s unhealthy for us vs. letting one thing die that’s good for us?

Is Pluto a poison that WE can select what to poison, as an alternative of it being left to destiny, luck or likelihood?

Thanks
New Leather-based Man

Hello, New Leather-based Man. What an attention-grabbing query, by no means thoughts your story is textbook to your transits. You’ve reworked and liberated your self. I needed to publish this!

To your query Pluto transits can deliver loads that’s exterior an individual’s management however you can even get with this system, which I might advocate. I really feel that is what you’ve executed right here.

The opportunity of your reworking your aesthetic and with it, your relationships, has all the time been there with natal Venus sq. Pluto. This variation didn’t occur to you, you selected it. This alone illustrates we do have one thing to say about what happens.

It appears to me, you felt the urge and went with it. Now you might be invigorated. What would have occurred had you resisted? I suppose you’ll be feeling repulsive proper now.  So sure! There may be extra to it than destiny, luck and likelihood.

So far as what “dies”, it might or is probably not out of your management.  For instance, this Scorpio man killed the sexual relationship. You need to take in that. However you killed your outdated, self.  It appears that is additionally variable.

I additionally need to point out, your sharing your story is more likely to encourage and empower somebody.  And Venus Pluto factor.

What do others suppose?